🎧 Play and Everyday Objects: Weaving Connection Through Simple Joys A reflection on the latest episode of the “Pondering Play and Therapy” podcast

Philippa

4/12/20252 min read

girl playing beside body of water during daytime
girl playing beside body of water during daytime

Ditch the Guilt, Embrace the Moments

Philippa and Julie revisit a familiar theme: the guilt many parents feel about not playing “enough” or in the “right” way. But instead of piling on pressure, they offer reassurance—reminding us that play doesn’t need to be a big production.

A wooden spoon can become a microphone. A shampoo bottle, a domino. A cardboard box? Anything at all.

With stories from their own lives—like a godchild using kitchen tools as musical instruments, or a child turning a shopping aisle into a playful obstacle course—they remind us that children naturally find joy in the mundane. Our role? Simply to notice, join in, and delight in the magic with them.

Play as a Language of Connection

What really shines through in this episode is how play acts as a bridge between people. Whether it’s a family game of “who can get dressed fastest,” or a kitchen drumming session with saucepans and spoons, these playful moments often carry more emotional weight than we realise.

They create warmth, reduce stress, and build trust. Even a little friendly competition—peeling potatoes, anyone?—can become a bonding moment when wrapped in laughter.

And it’s not just for kids.

Adults Need Play, Too

Julie and Philippa remind us that play is a lifelong need. Adults benefit just as much from silly games, spontaneous jokes, or light-hearted moments during chores. Whether it’s a word game on a long drive or a playful comment while cooking, these interactions foster emotional ease and connection.

They also gently acknowledge that for some, especially those who didn’t grow up in playful environments, this might not come naturally. But that’s okay. Playfulness can be nurtured. It starts small—with a smile, a shared laugh, or simply being open to a moment of joy.

Looking Ahead

This episode hopefully leaves listeners with an uplifting message: play doesn't have to be perfect—it just has to be present.

Whether you're a parent, educator, therapist, or just someone trying to bring a bit more lightness into your day, this conversation offers both practical ideas and gentle encouragement. And as Philippa and Julie hint, there’s more to come in future episodes—especially around how play supports learning and development.

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Let’s keep finding the joy in the everyday—together.