đ§ Play and Everyday Objects: Weaving Connection Through Simple Joys A reflection on the latest episode of the âPondering Play and Therapyâ podcast
Philippa
4/12/20252 min read
Ditch the Guilt, Embrace the Moments
Philippa and Julie revisit a familiar theme: the guilt many parents feel about not playing âenoughâ or in the ârightâ way. But instead of piling on pressure, they offer reassuranceâreminding us that play doesnât need to be a big production.
A wooden spoon can become a microphone. A shampoo bottle, a domino. A cardboard box? Anything at all.
With stories from their own livesâlike a godchild using kitchen tools as musical instruments, or a child turning a shopping aisle into a playful obstacle courseâthey remind us that children naturally find joy in the mundane. Our role? Simply to notice, join in, and delight in the magic with them.
Play as a Language of Connection
What really shines through in this episode is how play acts as a bridge between people. Whether itâs a family game of âwho can get dressed fastest,â or a kitchen drumming session with saucepans and spoons, these playful moments often carry more emotional weight than we realise.
They create warmth, reduce stress, and build trust. Even a little friendly competitionâpeeling potatoes, anyone?âcan become a bonding moment when wrapped in laughter.
And itâs not just for kids.
Adults Need Play, Too
Julie and Philippa remind us that play is a lifelong need. Adults benefit just as much from silly games, spontaneous jokes, or light-hearted moments during chores. Whether itâs a word game on a long drive or a playful comment while cooking, these interactions foster emotional ease and connection.
They also gently acknowledge that for some, especially those who didnât grow up in playful environments, this might not come naturally. But thatâs okay. Playfulness can be nurtured. It starts smallâwith a smile, a shared laugh, or simply being open to a moment of joy.
Looking Ahead
This episode hopefully leaves listeners with an uplifting message: play doesn't have to be perfectâit just has to be present.
Whether you're a parent, educator, therapist, or just someone trying to bring a bit more lightness into your day, this conversation offers both practical ideas and gentle encouragement. And as Philippa and Julie hint, thereâs more to come in future episodesâespecially around how play supports learning and development.
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Letâs keep finding the joy in the everydayâtogether.